Sunday, June 20, 2010

flakies, gifties, and uglies

So in my beginner sugar baby point of view, I am realizing that alot of pots are FLAKY AS HELL. I've made "kinda plans" (you know, where they say "Yeah lets go to dinner thursday or Friday," nothing set in stone though) and then never hear from them again! I think for me it may have to do with the fact that I tell them upfront I won't sleep with them on the first date...

Anyways, it really annoys me. I just want to find a sugar daddy or 2 then get off the sites and be done with the back and forth emailing and phone calls. I live in an apartment and I hate having o be so sneaky about my phone calls when pots want to discuss arrangements and what not.. THESE WALLS ARE THIN!

Now for some Mr. Ed news.. We actually talked on the phone rather than texted for an hour last night, and I like him! Again, not so sure he will really come through with that 20k allowance, but I haven't even met the guy and this morning picked up $100 from Western Union form him. I mean it's not much, but I haven't even met him yet and I think he just wanted to do something nice for me. He is out of town right now but he said when he gets back he is sending me some gifties! Hooray!

Question...I keep seeing that some of you are getting a nice little chunk of change in your first dinner date because the SD wants to show you he's serious...which guys are likely to do this!? Older or younger? I need one of those guys! :P

This guy Mark offered me 1200 to sleep with him, but I turned him down. I could really use the money but he is so ugly :( I realllllly need to work on getting past the looks and the age..

Also...if any of you sugar babies are from atlanta or ever come to Atlanta...I'd love to get together and hang out! I think it would be so cool to talk to another sugar baby in RL! :P


Kiss

4 comments:

  1. Advice: Don't say in a phone call before you meet them that you won't sleep with them. There's only a 50% chance that you will, but the second you take that away is the second they find someone that isn't so upfront. It's best to be said on the first date, or not at all while keeping the first date conversation from getting to sex.

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  2. i sooooo agree with Palm on this one love. exactly what i was thinking as i was reading x3

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  3. I am always skeptical of the 20k allowance men... keep hunting until you meet him. Do not have an allowance conversation until after you have met him. Last... sd4m is the worst site ever... most of the men on there are "volume discount johns" who want an escort aka pay per play but refuse to pay per the hour... they figure with an SB they pay the equivalent of one hour that an escort would charge them and they get the whole night...

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  4. I think the hardest part of being a SB is searching.

    Good luck to you. There are A LOT of flakes out there. <3

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