Guess who dropped $1000 shopping last night?

...NOT ME!!!

But, it was spent on me...Bebe, Cache, and Victoria's Secret...SCORE! :)

So I've been DYING to update but I just finally got to my computer! You guys are so right about SD4Me..Im off that site now. Anyways, I had a date last night with...well I'll call him Mr. sweetheart. He is tall, fat, and ugly. and 48. ew.

Anyways, I feel kind of bad for him because he really trusts way too easily :/

But he set me up for a facial and a massage at a beautiful Spa before our date, and I LOVED IT! (I've never had a massage or facial!) I still had to tip them and tip for valet parking but thats okay..just $34

Anyways after the Spa I headed over to meet him at this nice steak house and we had a great meal, we had interesting conversations and I didn't feel like people were staring really (thank god) BUT I had a HUGE scare as I was walking to the restaurant form my car because I saw 2 friends drive by! YIKES. (I had even made sure to not go anywhere near my home!)

After dinner we went shopping and he dropped 1000$ on me at Bebe, Cache, and Victoria's Secret! ahhhh! So basically, I'm STOKED although I would have rather just had $1000 cash. It was weird though because he wanted to hold me hand and put his arm around me and kept kissing my hand, neck shoulders and I KNOW people were looking like "wtf, 19 year old and 48 year old man!?"

The thing I hated was anytime I tried something on I obviously had to show him but he kept grabbing me and kissing me every single time i'd try something on so I tried to not try on too much because I realllllly didn't want to kiss him :( He probably called me "his sweetheart" like 50 times during our hour of shopping. so annoying...hence the name.

When the shopping center closed Mr. Sweetheart walked me to my car after and that was the worst...he literally grabbed me and after he kissed me a few times I tried to get in my car and go but he WOULDN'T LET ME MOVE :( HE was HOLDING me there and kept trying to kiss me ewwww.

So finally I got in my car, wiped off my lips, and smiled at my bags of new stuff! :)

So, mission accomplished! :)

~KISS

flakies, gifties, and uglies

So in my beginner sugar baby point of view, I am realizing that alot of pots are FLAKY AS HELL. I've made "kinda plans" (you know, where they say "Yeah lets go to dinner thursday or Friday," nothing set in stone though) and then never hear from them again! I think for me it may have to do with the fact that I tell them upfront I won't sleep with them on the first date...

Anyways, it really annoys me. I just want to find a sugar daddy or 2 then get off the sites and be done with the back and forth emailing and phone calls. I live in an apartment and I hate having o be so sneaky about my phone calls when pots want to discuss arrangements and what not.. THESE WALLS ARE THIN!

Now for some Mr. Ed news.. We actually talked on the phone rather than texted for an hour last night, and I like him! Again, not so sure he will really come through with that 20k allowance, but I haven't even met the guy and this morning picked up $100 from Western Union form him. I mean it's not much, but I haven't even met him yet and I think he just wanted to do something nice for me. He is out of town right now but he said when he gets back he is sending me some gifties! Hooray!

Question...I keep seeing that some of you are getting a nice little chunk of change in your first dinner date because the SD wants to show you he's serious...which guys are likely to do this!? Older or younger? I need one of those guys! :P

This guy Mark offered me 1200 to sleep with him, but I turned him down. I could really use the money but he is so ugly :( I realllllly need to work on getting past the looks and the age..

Also...if any of you sugar babies are from atlanta or ever come to Atlanta...I'd love to get together and hang out! I think it would be so cool to talk to another sugar baby in RL! :P

Kiss

Mr. Ed

So I've been talking to a pot ALOT recently...and it seems we've agreed to be each other sugars...I'm so skeptical of him though, because get this: he's supposedly giving me 20k a month.

TWENTY THOUSAND!!!!!

IF he's legit..it'll be great, obviously. But another good part is he is only 38 years old! Um, can you say sugary SCORE!?

(Not fat either!)

He claims to be a talent recruiter for a BIG time line (as in, you all know this line and probably own something from it, it's not too expensive but not cheap either) Which is kind of working out for me because I model and he's offering me a possible contract for the 2011 line...again, this is all what he CLAIMS...He says to prove it to me he's going to send me stuff from the line every week! First thing (shoes) should arrive in a few days...plus he said he sent in an extra surprise with the shoes...so we shall see.

My date for this past thursday never called to make plans...wtf?

Whatever.

KISS

Many thanks...

Go out to Curious little kitty khat and sunshine sugar for being so helpful!

Also, many others have given me some great advice and thanks to you as well!

I have a date with a pot on Thursday, so I'm going with a friend to get my nails done tomorrow! (I bit them if I don't have acrylic tips, ew I know, just can't help it!)

Talked to a pot on the phone today who seemed SO nice...but he only ended up offering me $1500 a month for 3 meetings a month. HAHA funny joke; on to tha next one on to tha next one...

OH P.S.! -- Semi annual sale at Victoria's Secret is my love! Spent $50 today and got SO much for my money!

Short update. kinda just a bunch of random ramblings!

~Kiss

Excel spreadsheets and Mr. Ski

Needing some sugary advice, please!

I have a date set up for this week (it will be my second pot. SD date ever!) and he is taking me SHOPPING, then dinner! This is so exciting, because that means i'm going to get something out of it without even having to do more than give him some companionship for an evening; aka, nothing sexual! So babies...how do I go about asking for stuff while shopping? I'm one of those people that is terrible at asking for what I want (atleast in person!) and I don't want to be a rude little sugar baby and say things like, "I want that $500 dress please!" ...So how would you act if you were in this situation?

On another note...Goal Digger is AMAZING and I am in the process of making an excel spreadsheet of all the pots because of her lovely advice- mad props to her! Seriously, organizing your sugary potentials in excel may seem ridiculous, but it is amazing how organized I feel about it now! I can sort my men by age, income, and location! :P I'd recommend doing this if you haven't already!

Oh- and I AM going to meet Mr. Ski in NYC soon, but only one *1* night and I already told him I don't have sex on the first meeting, and he understood, so that's taken care of for now! He said we'll see a cool show, spa treatments, cool restuarants, and some clubs/lounges. So it will be a fun time I think! Oh, and we're staying in quite the swanky hotel.. ;)

~Kiss

FIRST EVER meeting with possible SD..

Oh. My. God.

I can't believe I just did that. Did that, as in, actually met with a guy 20 years older than me and tried to picture myself being "intimate" with him. Weird.

So back to the beginning- (i'm going to call him Mr. Plant; read on to see why)

Mr. plant messaged me a few times on SD4me and I didn't think it would really go anywhere, but he seemed possibly promising so I gave him my number. He called me today and said "I think we should have sushi tonight" [names nice place in Atlanta] I go on to explain that I am actually at the beach with my family for the week and tell him the area I'm in.

oh, no big deal or anything but he owns a beachside condo right next to where I am. wtf!? So next thing I know I'm at dinner and get a text from Mr. Plant saying: "Hopped back on a plane and just arrived in [town im in] can I take you out for a drink tonight?"

damn. he flew to his beach condo, FOR ME? Well, I'm sure that there was more to it that just me but still, I thought no better time than now to see what this is all about, and he seemed very nice and sincere, so I agreed.

Since I'm under 21 he couldn't take me out for drinks, so I agreed to meet him at his condo. (I know, risky, but again it was literally right next to where I was staying and he seemed nice. My uh-oh feeling wasn't going off)

So I arrived, he looked 40. Which he was. It was weird for me. Which I think I his pretty well. And we talked for about 2 hours along with a glass of wine. I know he really was into me, and I think I kept him very interested with conversation...although he tried to kiss me when I left but I gave him the cheek.

As for allowance and all that...I don't really know what he's looking for, almost got the "I want a real relationship" vibe. We'll see.

So throughout our short time together he kept telling me I was like a plant and so easy to talk to (um, ok, I don't talk to plants but cool if you do?) and he just texted me "I think I've discovered a new favorite plant.." {Is that supposed to be smooth?)

BUT all in all, it was really good conversation, so I'll think about seeing him again.

Pot #2 I have a 2 day trip in NYC arranged with...this should be interesting...

Pot #3 is taking me SHOPPING then to dinner on Thurs...so this one is exciting because I'm going to get something out of it before ever having to do anything! yay!

Question Sugarbabies!

Will a SD be mad that I'm a virgin? Will he only desire someone experienced?

~Kiss

I'm a newbie- I'll admit it!

Hello Sugar world!

Ready to hear something crazy? (and true)

I am dying to become a sugarbaby...lot's of POT's I've been conversing with over email and some texting...but I'm a VIRGIN! Yes, swear on my life, 19 year old, sugarbaby wannabe virgin over here. (wtf right)

Here's my deal- I am sexually experienced in every other way besides sex, and I just was always too scared to have sex with ex boyfriends. I wanted to save it for the right guy...well I don't really believe in that shit anymore. But, I am a little worried this [minor] issue may make it impossible for me to be a sugar baby...will I be bad at sex with the SD? yikes.

Anyways...I've been reading all your sugary blogs (does that make me a creeper?) and I read on one that she doesn't even sleep with them; just gets what she can until they look elsewhere; so I think that's my best bet for now!

so POT #1- I'll call him ski-boy because a. he says he's amazing at skiing and 2. he can't be considered man because he's relatively young for a SD-39 (or so he says)

Anyways, he's flying me up to NYC for a couple days next week! Any tips?

....I hope this sugar life works out for me...I can already smell the fresh leather of the bags and shoes I'll be buying ;)

~Kiss