I have a date set up for this week (it will be my second pot. SD date ever!) and he is taking me SHOPPING, then dinner! This is so exciting, because that means i'm going to get something out of it without even having to do more than give him some companionship for an evening; aka, nothing sexual! So babies...how do I go about asking for stuff while shopping? I'm one of those people that is terrible at asking for what I want (atleast in person!) and I don't want to be a rude little sugar baby and say things like, "I want that $500 dress please!" ...So how would you act if you were in this situation?
On another note...Goal Digger is AMAZING and I am in the process of making an excel spreadsheet of all the pots because of her lovely advice- mad props to her! Seriously, organizing your sugary potentials in excel may seem ridiculous, but it is amazing how organized I feel about it now! I can sort my men by age, income, and location! :P I'd recommend doing this if you haven't already!
Oh- and I AM going to meet Mr. Ski in NYC soon, but only one *1* night and I already told him I don't have sex on the first meeting, and he understood, so that's taken care of for now! He said we'll see a cool show, spa treatments, cool restuarants, and some clubs/lounges. So it will be a fun time I think! Oh, and we're staying in quite the swanky hotel.. ;)
~Kiss
I've always directed men to the general vicinity of the shops I wanted to go in (I check things out online first, or go shopping with a girlfriend and pick things out that I want someone to purchase later). Then meander into the shop. Pick things out to try on, and make sure some of the things will look really bad so that what I want stands out. I'm really difficult to fit (my body just doesn't fit the standard patterns) so when something looks good and I like it, you definitely know.
ReplyDeleteThey want to see everything you try on, good or bad (if it's horrible, I don't walk out of the room). Lots of flirting, and finally walk out holding only what I want. Sometimes they'll get you what you want because you want it, but sometimes they'll only get you what they want out of your choices. I definitely would NOT let someone buy me something that wasn't perfect or that I would never wear.
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ReplyDeleteLOL That's so true though about the spreadsheets! I always wished I had done that. Otherwise you get sooo confused and miss out on a lot of good opportunities because you just don't remember a guy or follow up with them.
ReplyDeleteAnd definitely agree with the above comment on shopping. I try to single out a few things that I want, and I always try to get accessories just because I feel awkward trying on clothes with men. Good luck!!!
Thanks for the advice guys! I'll DEF. let you know how the shopping trip goes...I'm a little worried he will keep all of the stuff he buys for me and hope I'll go back to his hotel with him before giving it to me...we'll see. If so, atleast I'll get a good dinner!
ReplyDeletehey love. this is in regards to your comment on my blog! -the thought of having sex with a guy older than my father was just insane to me at first!... i think it will prob be even harder for u bc ur well... inexperienced lol. so not only will u be having sex for a couple of the first times but also doing it with a man much older and experienced which could be 1.gross. and 2.intimidating!
ReplyDeletehonestly its best to wait until u find someone u have a connection with. as in u feel like u can be yourself around him and dont feel pressure to do anything u are not comfortable with. u MUST remember that for an SB our looks is what makes us... but with a SD its his money NOT his looks that makes them bc well... the majority (or atleast the ones who usually shell out the most $$) are old and not the best looking! but connection can help bring some attraction. message me anytime okay! i was in ur exact same place 6 months ago and can fully relate to most of the stuff youre bound to experience in the next upcoming months! x3
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awww :) my excell spreadsheet is gaining popularity - its the only thing that keeps me sane... usually when i am on the hunt which lasts about a month tops I am talkingwith over 50 people. Pretty much I have a drinks/dinner date 5 nights a week and sometimes i have two dates a night... how is a girl to keep track of all the jeffs, mikes, and steves otherwise???
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